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Melanie User is Offline
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06/15/2009 12:43 PM Alert 

Thought it was time for this reminder  

Freedom of Speech

Many people in the USA  are very proud to say.... they live in the greatest and freest nation in the world !  But how true is that ?

Yes you can say it 's true that you are able  to think, act and speak as you wish, but when such freedom is not supported by wisdom, human beings can behave worse than animals.  ( Just check out any Chat room especially those with out chat policies or rules.)

Although human beings, yes even americans, are unique and intelligent, when they lack wisdom, they often misuse their so-called freedom for the wrong purpose.

For me, giving such so-called Freedom of Speech to people who don't have the right knowledge and the right training is like giving sharp knives to children. What can a child do with a sharp knife? He will either hurt himself or hurt others.

According to my view, such freedom doesn't really mean too much. You are legally empowered to be free to say  what  you  want, but within yourself, you are not free at all!

Most people want to exercise their right to  Freedom of Speech but don't want to take responsibilities. But freedom is inseparable from responsibility ! Just because you have the right ,  doesn't mean  it is right.

If  you have the freedom to think, it is your responsibility to think positively. If you have the freedom to speak, it is your responsibility to speak properly and meaningfully. If you have the freedom to act, it is your responsibility to act correctly.

Unfortunatley most of us do not take any responsibility for what we  think , do and say.  We always find excuses for ourselves and put the blame on others or on circumstances. It is of course easier to blame others .

I believe in freedom of speech. Something that irritates me, however, is the misconception that to decry someone else's views is tantamount to denying them freedom of speech. I've been in arguments where I've disagreed quite vehemently with someone, and then been charged with censorship for disagreeing!

Freedom of speech doesn't mean no one can take you to task for what you say -- it means you get to say what you think, and other people get to say what they think if they disagree. Freedom of speech does not mean speech without responsibility.

Why is it that some people think  Freedom of Speech means freedom from responsibility in exercising that right ?

There are those, who tend to forget that they are held accountable for their words (or should be). That there are laws against libel and slander . Just as in life rules, limitations, and boundaries guard against physical anarchy (e.g., traffic laws, social graces), so too limitations exist to guard against verbal incivility.

The advent of the Internet with it's blogs, chat rooms and message boards, has seen a staggering growth in the potential for the freedom of speech and expression to people throughout the world.

Sadly, in some quarters, this same freedom is being abused and used irresponsibly as a smoke screen to communicate in a vulgar, profane, violent, and insulting manner.

A Question or 2 for the Americans who hold  Freedom of Speech in such high regard:
Is your freedom of speech absolute? Can you say whatever you want, whenever you want?
--No. The language of the First Amendment has been interpreted by the Supreme Court so that in certain specific circumstances the government is able to limit your right to freedom of speech because it infringes on the rights of others.


Freedom of speech and press, does not mean freedom from responsibility and accountability for what one says and writes.
Those  writers, who hide behind pseudonames and concocted, unreachable emails, and whose postings are or should be  deleted, do not have the guts to handle  Freedom of Speech.

 It is simply a fact that not everyone will agree or think the same way about everything, thus, we must be able to compromise and tolerate one another.

Further, with this privilege comes responsibility, a  responsibility to see that what one says does in no way unnecessarily harm others.  For this is in one's self interest to observe: if you act in any way to jeopardize the security of another, what is to stop another person from doing the same to you?  Thus, as toleration is the primary attribute to democracy, nothing, not even freedom, must be allowed to contravene peace or order in society.

Still, in no country is freedom of speech absolute. Limits include, for instance, the prohibition of libel and slander (or defamation) – that is, publishing or saying things that are detrimental to one person in an "unfair" way.

We cannot stop people doing or saying anything simply because it offends us. Too many people are offended by too many different things. We should only constrain the liberty of others if what they do causes harm.

Words can incite hatred, inspire violence and create fear. When people use words in this way, it is facile to protest that they are merely expressing opinions. Their words cause real harm as well as offence.

One cannot be truly free in a society where people do choose to take any action without personal responsibility, restraint or accountability. For an individual to have and enjoy freedom and the full liberty to exercise one's rights requires individual responsibility in every phase of life.

Each individual must take full responsibility for one's words and be truly sovereign over one's own life and choices and leave everyone else to the same liberty and responsibility.

Tolerance and personal responsibility is the price of freedom. Your freedom of choice is paid for by giving others their freedom of choice. The fight for Freedom of Speech starts within us, for our own sovereignty, for our own awareness of our actions and repercussions.

Freedom of Speech, as well as peace of mind begins with how we treat ourselves, honouring ourselves, and extending that honour out to others, desiring that all can celebrate and enjoy that freedom.

Freedom is not an unlimited license, an unlimited choice, or an unlimited opportunity. Freedom is first of all a responsibility before the Higher Power of  our understanding.

The Statue of Liberty is a powerful symbol of freedom, the ideal that so many Americans have fought and died for.

At its base, engraved on a plaque are these words:
 
"Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, the wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me, I lift my lamp beside the golden door."

To Americans these words on the Statue of Liberty represent their identity as a nation of immigrants. A nation that extends its Liberty a  freedom to come to the United States and create a new life without religious and ethnic persecution.

Those words engraved on Liberty"s base that call a welcome  to all citizens of the world,  were written by: Emma Lazarus  a woman, a jew, and an immigrant.


Not penned by me but taken from a friend's musings


" The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for enough good men to do nothing."
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06/15/2009 2:27 PM Alert 

One of the earliest Western defences of freedom of expression is Areopagitica (1644) by the English poet and political writer John Milton.

Milton wrote in reaction to an attempt by the English republican parliament to prevent "seditious, unreliable, unreasonable and unlicensed pamphlets".

Milton advanced a number of arguments in defence of freedom of speech: a nation's unity is created through blending individual differences rather than imposing homogeneity from above; that the ability to explore the fullest range of ideas on a given issue was essential to any learning process and truth cannot be arrived upon unless all points of view are first considered; and that by considering free thought, censorship acts to the detriment of material progress.


Milton also argued that if the facts are laid bare, truth will defeat falsehood in open competition, but this cannot be left for a single individual to determine. According to Milton, it is up to each individual to uncover their own truth; no one is wise enough to act as a censor for all individuals. (8)


Noam Chomsky states that: "If you believe in freedom of speech, you believe in freedom of speech for views you don't like. Stalin and Hitler, for example, were dictators in favor of freedom of speech for views they liked only.

If you're in favor of freedom of speech, that means you're in favor of freedom of speech precisely for views you despise." (9)

An often cited quote that describes the principle of freedom of speech comes from Evelyn Beatrice Hall (often mis-attributed to Voltaire) "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it," as an illustration of Voltaire's beliefs. (10)

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06/15/2009 4:44 PM Alert 

Thanks for this, Melly.

I may have the right to freedom of speech, but I also have responsibility for the consequences of what I say.  If I yell "FIRE!!!" in a crowded theatre, I am responsible for the stampede to the exits.  It is the same in dealing with others -- I am responsible for words that hurt, attack, praise or extol anyone I speak to. 

Though I sometimes say that I killed off the brain cell that served as a filter between my brain and my tongue, I do try to avoid hurting others -- besides, I really hate having to make amends! LOL


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06/16/2009 1:13 AM Alert 
good job the one linking your brain and your fingers is alive

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06/18/2009 10:54 AM Alert 

****Sniff --- Sniff --  Why do I smell troll crap again? ****

 

From this and a couple of other posts I see it sounds like we have had another sick individual (may be more) using the right of freedom speech as the mask to hide a twisted attempt to spread hatred, and act out their warpped need for attention.

 

I may not always agree with the powers that be here on the realm. But the one thing I do agree with is the need to provide a safe, healthy environment where we can work together for our recovery. I’ve seen a lot of folk come here with their heads and hearts trapped in the insanity of this disease and because of the safe, caring environment here they find in this place they to begin to heal.

 

I know for me if, I came here barely sober and heard someone apostatizing one religion or another, pressing a political agenda, playing little vindictive games, trying to sell Amway or doing anything but placing the focus on the labor of love and the joy of recovery I would have turned tail and run.

 

The grim truth here, when someone in early recovery turns tail and runs, it may cost them their life.

 

 

This is not a simple oen chat room here for on line flirting or trying to impress others with you imaginary prowess. It's about real people in recovery trying to help other find the life saving (and life building) solution we share in recovery.

 

I am a vet, I was (and still am) ready to give my life if necessary to protect those rights granted in the US constitution (and many other progressive countries, including Canada) and do what I can to help those freedoms spread to other countries. But those rights come with a mandate of responsibility, and unfortunately, in our world, responsibility seems to be a dirty word.

 

Mell, Skye and the crew here have to take an extra measure of responsibility because so many of the folk that wander in here are not capable of being responsible for themselves. In that I am grateful for their efforts.

I do know that the safe space I have here, where I can come in and be open and honest about where I am and what happening in my life has been a Godsend. If I had to really worry about some malicious troll lurking here I would not have that freedom.

 

Hobie

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